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It's Complicated (But It Doesn't Have to Be)

A Modern Guide to Finding and Keeping Love

Paul Carrick Brunson - Author

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ISBN 9781592407699 | 304 pages | 11 Oct 2012 | Gotham Books | 9.25 x 6.25in | 18 - AND UP
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The “Modern Day Matchmaker” presents a refreshingly optimistic and plainspoken dating guide to finding romance—both on- and off-line.

Finding and keeping a mate has never been harder. New rules are needed to navigate the complicated and changing modern-love landscape. If someone wants to find “the one,” what are the guidelines he or she needs to know, now that online dating and Google-searching a prospective love interest are the norm?

Happily married for ten years, Paul Carrick Brunson is a husband, a father, and a rising star in the matchmaking world. In It’s Complicated (But It Doesn’t Have to Be), Brunson tackles relevant questions such as:

  • Is marriage right for my personality type?
  • Do the rules of chivalry still apply?
  • How can I date more than one person without hurt feelings?
  • What is the best mode of communication (text messages, phone, e-mail, etc.) for asking someone out?

With an appealing mix of humor, candor, and real-world examples, It’s Complicated (But It Doesn’t Have to Be)  is a breath of fresh air in the dating guide category, offering a message of eternal optimism from a man who believes in true love—and practices what he preaches.



"It's Complicated (But It Doesn't Have to Be) is as relevant to those seeking love as it is to people who have already found it. This is a great tool for both men and women and is a terrific refresher course for those of us in committed relationships."
—Lisa Ling, award-winning journalist and bestselling author

"Paul is much more than a matchmaker, he's a life coach."
—Oprah Winfrey



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